Natural Hair on The Red Carpet! What Does It Mean?

All this talk about natural hair on the red carpet!  I love it!  I call it strong hair!  It has a strong presence and it says, this is the real me, like it or lump it!  I know she didn’t go natural for this reason, but Viola couldn’t have planned a better marketing campaign.  The press can’t seem to get enough of talking about her in that now famous L.A.Times spread, or on the red carpet sporting that cinnamon red hair and that emerald green Vera Wang dress.

I have been asked by a number of people and interviewed by Gerit Quealy in her “Over 40″ article, if I thought that after the Vogue spread, that Viola would be brave enough to walk the red carpet with her kinky tresses.  I knew without a doubt that she would.  When you make that kind of move, a month before the biggest gala on the planet, you don’t get cold feet and revert back to the tried and true.  Heck no!  You keep it moving forward with the new you!

As I have mentioned before, going natural begins as an internal process, even if it’s unconscious.  Something in the heart, the mind or the soul is stirring and is calling out for a new expression, on being in touch with what’s real for you at that time.  A friend asked what would make a woman like Viola reinvent herself.  This is an especially interesting question given the industry that she’s in.  We’re talking about Hollywood here, that illusive place where many sisters, no matter how talented and no matter how hard they try to fit into the mold by sporting straight and long tresses, they are hard pressed to be gainfully employed on a regular basis, or at all.   I believe that Viola was just plane ole tired of playing a roll that was not the real her, even when she was off set.  And when you are true to yourself in this way, it attracts people for all the right reasons.  All of us have an internal compass that resonates with others when they are true to themselves, unless of course we have issues…  But that’s another conversation for another time.

Viola wanted to ‘come out’, to come from under the wigs, the constructed persona, to her true self in her day to day life.  How long can you hold down a lie about who you really are, how you really look, what comes naturally to you?  Some can do it for a life time, but with others,  the heart just cries out for true expression.  Not to mention she had her husband encouraging her.  Got to love that man, because obviously, he really loves her as he encouraged her to do what she was longing to do, to be her real self.

 

Now when Esperaza Spaulding appeared on the red carpet with her big ‘Fro we weren’t that surprise because this is how she’s been rocking her hair all along and accepted her Grammy Award for Best New Artist,  in that fashion.

But when she took to the stage with that angelic voice, the soft, white Grecian style gown and that gigantic Afro, it was dazzling!  Esperanza is young, a musician, has a strong jazz repertoire – in other words, we expect her to be outside the mold, defining for herself her own image, sharing her true expression.  But to see her in the setting of the Oscars, just made my heart swell with joy and pride for that innate ability of youth to walk to the beat of their own drummer.

Here at Khamit Kinks, we are grateful to these two sisters for stepping up and stepping out in the tradition of their ancestors, wearing hair that  speaks to the cultural heritage.  These women are artists and as such it is their prerogative to change.  Life changes  and needs change and so they may do so too (regarding their hair) in the near or far future.  Only time will tell.  But for this 2012 Award season, personally, I was delighted at seeing them in their natural glory.  How about you?

 

 

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14 Responses to Natural Hair on The Red Carpet! What Does It Mean?
  1. Pam
    February 28, 2012 | 5:17 pm

    I loved seeing Viola Davis on the Oscar red carpet rocking her beautiful natural hair. I was hoping she would wear this look after seeing her recent pictures with Oprah. I was disappointed to see Wendy Williams make the comment on her show that Viola’s natural hair style was not what she wanted to see on the red carpet. This comment was made to a white stylist who was very complimentary regarding Ms. Davis’ hairstyle. They were reviewing the fashions on the Oscar show. I think each woman looks best in the style they feel represents them. Wendy Williams needs to wear her wigs and show respect for Viola representing the black women who find true beauty in their natural hair style. I am so proud of Viola Davis for showing her royal profile.

    • Anu Prestonia
      February 28, 2012 | 7:34 pm

      Thank you Pam for your your insights. When it comes to Wendy Williams and her comments on natural hair, my best response is ‘No Comment’. But me make no comment, can I do that? Yeah, I think I’ll just leave it there. When you have nothing nice to say, it’s time to say nothing!

    • Ma-Abena
      February 29, 2012 | 12:39 pm

      I think Viola Davis is fabulous!!! I like Wendy Williams but I do not agree with her comment. You don’t have to have flowing hair to be beautiful. Natural, Kinky hair is perfect just the way it is. I am SO SO proud of Viola Davis for rocking her natural style. I feel more women should wear their hair naturally- it’s beautiful. There is nothing more beautiful than natural beauty. I also think the red carpet was one of the best places to rock the natural hair. Hair is such a huge issue in the black community. I’m glad the two ladies wore their natural hair; this will hopefully begin to pave a way for more black women with natural hair styles who are to come in the industry.

      • Anu Prestonia
        February 29, 2012 | 1:11 pm

        I too am very proud Ma-Abena! Your sentiments are mine exactly! I am hoping that both of these women inspire others to come into their own.

  2. Kp
    February 29, 2012 | 12:28 pm

    I was extremely proud of Viola. She not only rocked her hair natural but in a TWA. Some women are not too confident to do that. She owned it and it made me love her even more. As for Esperanza, I just love her hair. Her afro is a force to be reckoned with. I am not aware of what Wendy said but need to look it up.

    • Anu Prestonia
      February 29, 2012 | 1:06 pm

      Thank you KP. I don’t know if it’s worth you time to even read what Wendy has to say. But here is a link to the Wendy Williams article.

  3. Marian
    February 29, 2012 | 12:32 pm

    What a great supportive post, Anu! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I always appreciate your insightful comments and the beautiful way you express them. And I love the photos you chose- beautiful women and beautiful hair! They are an inspiration!

    • Anu Prestonia
      February 29, 2012 | 1:09 pm

      Thank you Marian for your care and support! It means so much to me.

  4. Adrina
    February 29, 2012 | 12:51 pm

    What does it mean?
    It means that finally, we are embracing and appreciating OUR hair and all the ways we can wear it in its natural state. We are finally saying ‘kinky doesn’t mean it looks bad’. And while, I understand how society has related kinky hair to unattractiveness (e.g. thugs wearing half done dreds and the illegal actions associated with them), celebrities, like Viola, Esperanza, Lauryn Hill, India.Arie, Jill Scott are representing in a positive way. Slowly, but surely natural hair is coming back on the scene among black women, and I for one, will be rocking my au-natural-ness in April.

    In another post, you speak about Wendy’s comment of Viola’s hair not being formal enough. Formal according to whose standards?….society? Hollywood? Vogue thought it was beautiful enough to put in their mag, and Viola, in my opinion was flawless on the red carpet. This is another ‘thing’ to associate natural hair with ‘not good enough’ or ‘it doesn’t look good enough’. It’s different, it’s beautiful…..and like the comeback it’s making, we’ll make it formal enough for the red carpet and other events.

    • Anu Prestonia
      February 29, 2012 | 1:21 pm

      Adrina, you said it! It’s a matter of us sincerely knowing, loving and appreciating our different-ness. Every race of people will have their own particular features, hair textures, body types and etc. that distinguishes them from others. Every person has their own unique natural beauty and trying to conform to a standard of beauty of someone is self defeating, is not in harmony with self love and will never be fulfilling. You are so right, I sincerely believe there is no place that’s too good, too formal or sophisticated for our hair, our beautiful naturally kinky hair!

  5. Beauty Is Diverse
    February 29, 2012 | 1:29 pm

    Viola’s spread is for the L.A Times Magazine not Vogue Magazine.

    • Anu Prestonia
      February 29, 2012 | 1:30 pm

      Thank you for the correction! When writing this post I was diverted by a link regarding whether or not Vogue would feature Viola on the cover, that my wires got crossed. I sincerely appreciate the ‘good looking out’.

  6. Patricia Thomas
    March 2, 2012 | 6:04 pm

    I feel that wearing ones hair in any style one choses is ok. It’s like saying my hair is thin and at all cost I will wear it, whether it’s becoming to me or not. To take it a step further, how many women would not wear make-up? Big one, huh? I feel that people who don’t have words to convey, that complement, you should keep them to themselves. Wendy Williams of all people, even though I like her, has lessons of tactfulness to be learned…

    • Anu Prestonia
      March 3, 2012 | 6:54 pm

      So true Patricia and well said!

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